Our recruiting experience changed our family. And it really changed the lives of our sons. They received fully paid educations because we, as a family, took the initiative to get our sons recruited. Sure, we couldn’t guarantee how coaches would respond, but at least our sons’ abilities were seen by coaches.
Why don’t so many talented athletes ever get recruited? It’s really quite simple.
If you’re a parent of a talented athlete, I’m sure you want the best opportunity for your son or daughter. Helping them take the initiative is one of the best things you can do for them. Come alongside them and work on this as a team. And a word for athletes… Continue reading
I’m in Houston this week. Unfortunately, I’m leaving Saturday morning at 5:30, when all the Final Four fans arrive.
What comes to mind is the number of high school athletes that make their school choice based on who they see on TV in the big games. Parents, you know what I’m talking about.
When you consider a college education is one of the biggest choices your family will ever make, it’s important to have more to go on than watching teams on TV. You may have to convince your student-athlete about that.
Talk to your kid about the better way of making his or her hot list of schools. Remind them that the #1 priority is to find the best fit, or match, in the end. Let’s look at four key matches to consider and discuss.
This is first because your kid is a student-athlete.
Your list should include schools that have your kid’s area of academic interest. This isn’t a hard and fast rule, because their interests are likely to change after they are in school for a year or two. But a good starting point are schools that have majors that fit their interests.
As for me, I wasn’t sure what I wanted to study going into college. I started in communications and ended up in radio and TV. I knew I didn’t want to pursue engineering or science, so that narrowed it down to liberal arts. That may be all you have to go on at this point, and that’s fine.
On the other hand, if your son or daughter has strong interests in a certain major or area, be sure to take that into account when you build your list of prospective schools.
Can your kid compete at the schools on his or her radar? This is important, because you don’t want to put a lot of effort into programs that are way above their talent level, and you don’t want to shoot for ones that are way below. You want to find the sweet spot. Go after those schools that are a good match.
This is where it’s important to open your son or daughter’s eyes to good institutions they’ve never considered. As a parent, your role kicks in here. Do some research and get a wider variety of schools on your kid’s radar.
The athletic match also includes the dynamics of coaching staff. You won’t know this until you meet the coaches, but have this factor on your radar.
I’m talking about your kid’s desires and dreams. What’s important to him or her in a college? You should consider athletics, academics, college life, location, etc. Listen to what your student-athlete has to say. Take note. You may understand more than they do what their aspirations are. As they verbalize those aspirations, they’ll get clarity, too.
What stories are coming out of the programs on your list? You may not hear anything in the early going, but the more you get to know a coach and program, you should hear some stories that give you a better picture about the program and institution.
Ask other athletes in the program. Talk to students there. If you know other people who have gone to that school, talk with them. Get as much information as you can from what others have to say about their experience.
When your kid hears these stories, how does he feel? Is he attracted to the school or not? While not a scientific evaluation, this can really help the “gut feeling” about a school.
I’m one who urges my families to cast your net wide. Don’t come up with a short list out of the gate. So, while I’m encouraging you to develop your list from the four keys above, don’t limit your choices early on. Use these guidelines throughout the recruiting process, especially as you narrow down your choices.
Congratulations to Karina Diaz, the winner of a $75 Sports Authority Gift Card. She entered the contest during the Grand Opening of Athletic Scholarship University. Karina, this is a good way to start the Christmas season!
If you’re a talented athlete, you’re blessed. You have to realize that not everyone is talented. Your talent is something that you may take for granted, but this Thanksgiving I encourage you to give thanks to the good Lord who gave it to you.
In fact, take an athletic inventory. What sets you apart from your competitors? Think details. Height, weight, speed, certain skills.
Then take an inventory of your accomplishments. Think back over the past year or two and list what you’ve done.
Say a big “Thank You” for all these things. You are a unique individual with a set of talents and accomplishments that no one else possesses. Never take that for granted. Then… Continue reading